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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • I am very glad that more people here are to the left of me rather than the right, but it hasn’t seemed to make discussion any easier.

    I just don’t see the Fediverse catching on widely overall, and if it does it will splinter.

    I will no longer tolerate bad faith discussion, targeted violent rhetoric, and blatantly insulting comments.

    We have, largely, been better here, and I hope to… if not keep it that way, then at least continue to advocate for a better form of discussion that promotes understanding. I say this because, as a leftist, I have been dragged further left by being here in ways that have measurably changed the lives of people around me.

    Keeping a social media space relatively non-toxic HELPS PEOPLE. Let’s try.













  • Telling a friend’s girlfriend that he was doing much more serious drugs than she was comfortable with.

    This did kill their already strained relationship (They were broken up after he had drained their joint bank account with pay-per-minute online porn) but somehow my friendship with both survived for a few years after.

    They never got back together and his life went to shit, including some jail time for embezzlement.

    She, as far as I know, bedded the next guy to hit on her and had a kid. I hope it worked out as she deserved better.

    My other friends had always hated her, and loved that I had driven a wedge between them… until they found out that I essentially outed them for giving/selling him the drugs.

    Following that, all my friends knew where I stood, and those who distanced themselves from me… I knew why. One of them, more than a decade later, is in prison for murder after selling fentanyl-laced drugs and causing a fatal overdose.

    Several I am still close with. They know me, respect me, and understand that I will do the right thing, even if I am not the wronged party.



  • Absolutely, and I still do it at 52 years of age. Powers of two, three, five. I also convert letters to numbers, add them, and subtract 26 to figure out which letter is the total of the word, phrase, or license plate.

    If I play boggle a lot, I will start to dream word patterns.

    When I was a teenager, my Dad would point out a license plate and have me total them and convert to hexadecimal.