I’m fully aware that only I myself can decide whether or not I’m bi, and I know I probably will eventually, but I recently broke up with my girlfriend because I realized her gender wasn’t that attractive to me, and I wanted a boyfriend. Not a girlfriend. Men, I definitely prefer, and they’re more attractive to me.
I thought she was attractive to me, but I view her as more of a sister or friend, which we are now (friends). Can someone help me out, please? I don’t want to claim to be something if I’m not, but I’ll still be an ally if it turns out I’m straight. (I’m a nonbinary genderfluid person so I’ll still be LGBT).
Very much with this. You are you. And that’s it. If the person you build a relationship with gives, shares & cares as you do then you’re onto a winner. That’s what’s important.