I’m fully aware that only I myself can decide whether or not I’m bi, and I know I probably will eventually, but I recently broke up with my girlfriend because I realized her gender wasn’t that attractive to me, and I wanted a boyfriend. Not a girlfriend. Men, I definitely prefer, and they’re more attractive to me.

I thought she was attractive to me, but I view her as more of a sister or friend, which we are now (friends). Can someone help me out, please? I don’t want to claim to be something if I’m not, but I’ll still be an ally if it turns out I’m straight. (I’m a nonbinary genderfluid person so I’ll still be LGBT).

  • grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    1 day ago

    Call yourself whatever you’re comfortable with. I’m a woman and I call myself bi, but I’ve been with a man for 5 years, yet I still sometimes see/interact with women and I find them so attractive that I blush and get nervous around them. Yes, I am with a man, and I find men attractive, but I find women equally attractive. Just because I am with a man now, doesn’t make those feelings for women go away, ever. Should I NOT call myself bi because I’m with a man? No, the attraction to women is always there, regardless.