I am 25(M) and never even touched hand of opposite sex, at this point i am kinda sure that im going to be alone in my life, but i just cant get over it. I am ugly and skinny, and as for recent started going bald. Have some heart issues so no heavy physical work. I have no chance. So i wanted to move on from this state of mind, and just focus on work and hobbies. How can i do so? Do you have any advice you can share?

  • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    10 days ago

    Go to an art group. If you’re in a city there’s probably several. Stuff like drawing in the park is downright normie of a hobby. You’ll get better and find yourself chatting with people who share an interest

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      10 days ago

      im not that skilled for an art group, maybe sometime in the future, but right now my drawings are childish and its kinda cringe in a way

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        9 days ago

        Kill the cop in your head dude. People sketching in the park aren’t there because they’re good at sketching, they’re there because the park is lovely, sketching is fun, and it’s nice to combine those with other people who like them