Berttheduck

I might be reading this wrong but I’m not convinced it helps. My read of this is basically we get 1 free go at surviving and can send messages back to the start point for the second go to try and survive.

You could keep a running commentary of what you’re doing and where you’re going which would give you a little bit of notice of where and when you die but unless you can time loop and continually adjust the plan until you find something that works I don’t see how knowing 1 point of failure is enough to keep you alive.

Maybe someone smarter than me has a better idea though, or I’ve got the prompt wrong.

I work in a hospital so: scalpels, oxygen bottles/ wall supply explosions (hard to do without disabling the safety’s which I don’t know how to do), plenty of radiation sources in the building, loads of dangerous drugs from sedatives to painkillers to chemotherapy. If I’m lucky the monster might just die of MRSA or pneumonia before they get to me.

Being single and being alone are very different and I think it’s important to differentiate between them. Being alone sucks for most humans, social species and all that, being single is business as usual for a lot of folks. Go on some dates and have fun, be safe though and don’t expect a life partner unless that’s the standard on the dating app you’re using.

I’d recommend going out and doing fun things with other people that aren’t specifically dating. Join a club or a sports team. Learn a new hobby and join the local meet up. Socialise without the pressure of finding a partner and enjoy yourself, a good way to be attractive to others is by being enthusiastic about something.

The state of your mental health is not necessarily your fault, but it is your responsibility. It’s ok to be having a bad day, week, or year but it’s not ok to hurt other people because of that.

Being alone kinda blows but it is really important to be comfortable by yourself and be able to enjoy yourself without a long term partner. A good way to find a partner is to do things you enjoy, grow yourself as a person and put yourself into spaces where you can meet people, take up hobbies which put you in those spaces. It sounds like you are devoted to your kid which is awesome, they are also 17 so nearly an adult so you can definitely do things without them and they can do stuff without you if that is something you both want. It might be easier for you to find a hobby space if you’re only looking for stuff you are interested in.

Try to stay positive, there’s a lot of people on this planet, you only need to find one of them who’s on the same wavelength as you, sometimes all that takes is looking in the right places and having fun while looking.

But those days where you just relax and enjoy yourself count as good days so that’s ok too.

You’re in a very sweaty situation it seems. The hope is to keep the lower temperature from overnight but if you’ve not got great ventilation that probably doesn’t do much if you can’t swap out the cooler night air. You’re probably getting the heat from the building below you coming up overnight as well.

Have you tried aiming some fans at windows on one side of the house to create more airflow?

Open all windows and as many curtains as you can manage at night with fans going. Then close everything when you get up in the morning. Definitely helps when it’s really hot. Might not get as much benefit in a flat though.

I love Iron Sky for this. Nazis on the moon. It’s satire all the way through. Such a goofy film but a lot of fun.

Yeah they are common beach wear but a visiting a site for looking at women wearing them is not something most people would do at work so they are probably right.

Screen protector and case every time. The amount I’ve dropped and cracked the screen protector I feel like I would have knackered my screen at least a few times.

I tried a full coverage case recently which turned out to be pretty naff, worse than a regular screen protector, as stuff kept getting in the gaps for buttons and ending up under the screen.

Got this recently for my wife and I to play together and we are loving it so far. Just about reached bronze but don’t have a reliable supply of tin and winter is setting in so we are looking forward to getting our base set up and exploring some caves and ruins. We’ve got plenty of food, just hoping to squeeze another set of flax out of the farm before it’s too cold.

We watched Rubix Raptors YouTube series on it and loved the mix of chill crafting with more hardcore survival mechanics and a little dusting of cosmic horror.

It’s also pretty cheap for what you’re getting at about £20 it’s still in early access but is totally functional. We’ve played over 20 hours and haven’t hit a single bug which broke anything (just had our player models not display properly a couple of times). It’s also got really excellent built in modding support and what looks like a shed load of excellent mods.

I love my onyx. I use it for running RPGs, it’s great for taking notes and reading pdfs. Plus as it’s still running android you can run regular apps and browse. It’s a more focused experience than a general tablet but I’d say worth the money for my use case.

Well that’s nightmare fuel. Cudos to you for sorting it.

I’ve been journaling for a few years, starting with a Mind Journal in COVID which I found really useful. It’s built to ease you into it, get you reflecting more and introspecting as well as build the habit by making it as easy as possible to note something down each day.

I don’t use their products any more as they are quite expensive but I’d definitely recommend looking into them for trying to turn journaling into a habit. I do use the system though which is for each day you note your feelings, 3 (or more) achievements which can be anything from got up and showered to got a promotion, 3 (or more) things your grateful for and a happy hour where you have or plan to do something good for yourself.

This is a really useful prompt I find because those bits only take a few minutes and are a great way to track things over time. For example looking back at my COVID journal I can spot when I started getting burned out by having feeling: tired every day for several months. Noting down what you’re grateful for is also proven to help your mood, basically you start looking for positive things more and it’s a happy feedback loop.

Once I’ve done those bits I write stream of consciousness style, anything that’s playing on my mind, details of my day, stuff I hope might or might not happen, things that made me angry. For me it’s a really useful medicine practice which has definitely helped keep my mental health more stable over the years.

I like having a nice book and pen to write in too, I’m looking forward to finishing this journal so I can upgrade the book to something more fancy, maybe going leather bound next time.

My main advice would be to stick with it, habits take a good 3 months or so to bed in. The mind journal is good for this as it makes it really easy to journal something and gradually builds you up to more free form writing.

Good luck with your journalling I hope you find something which works for you. There are loads of methods out there from billet journaling which helps like a load of work to me but looks amazing like an art project, to the VOMIT method to just get your thoughts onto the page. Keep at it, try to find what works for you and build the habit, but don’t stress if you miss a day or two.

I got myself an Onyx boox e ink tablet for note taking. I don’t know if it’s what you’re looking for but it runs android and writes beautifully. Good battery life with the e ink. I love mine. It is more expensive than an equivalent standard tablet though and no back light on my model.

I think a lot of this is due to colonialism. Back when the Brits were sailing around pointing cannons at people and being delightful they didn’t respect local culture and dialects enough to bother with a “tricky” word so replaced it with an easier version. Unfortunately due to that expansion and the proliferation of English as the most common trade language the English versions tend to stick.

Both are good. Cats are definitely less effort than a dog (as someone who’s never owned a cat at least) as they don’t need walking or training particularly, if you don’t train a dog it will be a menace, cats just do their own thing. I’ve got a dog and wouldn’t change that for anything, the love and entertainment they give and the fact you have to go outside with them and exercise is great for your mental health. If I couldn’t have a dog, due to not being able to exercise them properly cuz of work etc, I’d happily have cats.

I’d also like to recommend rats as alternatives, they are super sweet pets, very clever and social critters. The only downside is they don’t live very long.

Yup yup. This is perfect. Sends me right to sleep.