this has been my wallpaper for I think a little over a year

Showering. No idea why maybe the simplest task of the day is also the task that makes my emotional state immediately tank.

on top of what the others are saying… i don’t necessarily think shes unattractive

I mean I havent seen her enough to give a full opinion but I really dont look at her and find her anywhere near repulsive like you seem to

bloober team is horrible lol let’s not praise them for their country of origin alone

unless youre misspelling the URL… my client says this community no longer exists. wtf?

BTW apologies for the feature length film script ^ just thought I’d give context for those who aren’t aware of what section 504 means for minors

Speaking as someone who continues to be under a section 504 in school, for those who dont know: A 504 document tells teachers and staff the needs of a student if their needs are atypical. This, for me, means breaks from class to prevent ant/or minimize panic attacks. For my friends who have undergone surgery, it means allowing them to use our schools elevators to move from level to level. It also means that they have passing period offset by a certain amount of time so the kids who use crutches or wheelchairs aren’t run over in our massive school. A LOT of kids have 504s. My 504 coordinator and the work we’ve done for my 504 document have changed my life. I have gone from panic attacks almost daily in the middle of my class because of months overdue assignments, to being able to take breaks and consult with my teachers so we understand eachother better. Panic attacks daily, to once every few weeks. Chronic absence over said panic attacks leading to incomplete work, to turning in an assignment late every once in a while and only for my hardest classes. If you are not currently in a school with a 504, do not try to downplay their positive effect. This was a vital part of my progress in the development of my mental health, my self-image, and my (now positive) world view. It fills in the gaps that may be left by an uncaring and unyielding school system and workload.

can you define daddy issues in any concrete way? this is not an official term at all so I’d be cautious seeking opinions on it online. I feel for you regardless and I struggle with some of these traits, though I don’t think theyre simplistic enough to be ascribed to a relationship with a particular parent or similar

Look into the concept of codependency. One should never be in a relationship DESPITE their wellbeing.

Frankly, having dealt with situations like this before, this level of attachment should be walked away from or cut off. Amelia seemingly needs to get over this and I don’t even know that theres a charitable solution to this where everyone wins. I’ve always governed myself with the philosophy that I should look after myself. This can superficially sound selfish but it’s because I can’t take care of other if I’m not nearing my best. If Amelia is this dependent on Ana, for both of their sakes, I think the tie should be severed or minimized. This sounds cruel, I understand. How does Ana feel? Does she feel burdened by this? If so, it sounds like we have our answer.

Can you elaborate on what specifically bothered you? I didn’t notice anything when I read it but it was a good while ago

I’m sure you’ve read or heard this before, but project hail mary is great. The whole bobiverse series was incredibly satisfying to read and the 5th book is out recently in the form of an audio book. Low pressure, low commitment series thats just full of engineering porn.

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lmao I went down a whole rabbit hole with the links in this page and I do not understand ANYTHING here. math is not my thing

exchange AFAIK isn’t considered hierarchy, a trade of goods (in your example money for service) is equal