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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • You don’t have to actively engage with your neighbors, or just do so sparingly. You are in control of your life and (generally) what happens with it.

    It does sound like a lot of people you associate with just hang out with you to make themselves feel better by being ‘above’ you in their eyes. I would try to cut these people out of your life and try to find other like-minded people who may understand you and your situation better.












  • It does seem some context is missing/over generalization of actions and events. I would be surprised that your mutual friends would side with her given the above events unless they were her friends first and felt an obligation to stick with her.

    That said, if what Is posted is truly accurate, then your are not the asshole. It seems you acted reasonably and had reasonable expectations. Some people can’t handle a long distance relationship (me included) and start having insecure thoughts about the relationship and try to “read between the lines” despite there not being anything there.