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Cake day: 2025年9月3日

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  • That’s hard… I’d first suggest exploring the “not clicking” aspect. It’s easy to get focus on that part instead of focusing on being the best you possible. That confidence will bring folks who do click into your orbit and vice versa.

    Stop worrying about being good enough or clicking, you will never click if you are trying to click.

    Good luck!

    Edit: as for the being used part, don’t make yourself so available all the time. Done rush to be the solution machine when it’s always something involving your time or money. Your time is valuable and you can’t just drop everything to accommodate.