Criticism of the CCP alone is not racist, reporting it as racism is report abuse.

This is it. It’s really easy for cis people to talk about trans issues like they are nothing because they don’t experience them. I should know. I used to be like that before I knew I was a trans girl, and then I eventually came to realize why it hurt so much when my egg broke and I came to be in that position.

Thanks, it wasn’t easy, but I did it eventually 🏳️‍⚧️

Wow you totally seem like a credible and sensible person to make such an assessment, totally not someone with a history of transphobic arguments, nope, not at all, totally not someone who would get themselves banned making such an argument and deserve it 100%.

If it wasn’t clear I was being sarcastic. You clearly parroted right-wing transphobic talking points which means you believe or agree with them to a certain extent. You are not a safe person for trans people. Saying “I’m not transphobic I support LGBTQ, but…” is the equivalent of saying “I’m not racist, I have black friends”. I know your kind very well. I used to be one.

It’s sad. I’m really going to miss this place. I migrated to lemmy.blahaj.zone. I hope I’ll continue to have great experiences there.

I chose lemmy.blahaj.zone since most of the communities I participate in are there and they have been nothing but kind to me. I highly recommend it for other queer people who want to have a peaceful community free of transphobia.

This you?

I think they were talking about people like that, people like you.

lemmy.blahaj.zone is good, I just moved there. I’ve participated in their communities and they’ve been nothing but nice to me.

If you think you made a mistake I say you should probably reach out to Ada through their email form and request an appeal, instead of making a thread here to complain about all of blahaj.zone. Listen I’m someone who used to be a lot like you and not understanding people being offended by wrong pronouns, I have learned though in my journey that for people who are Trans, assholes and bigots take every opportunity to push them down or make them feel invalid, on top of everything else. Being trans is not easy, and I don’t think people who aren’t can ever truly understand how difficult it really is.

So when someone is excusing using wrong pronouns or excusing transphobia, it can be extremely hurtful to people who are traumatized and have gone through misgendering and invalidation, or are continuing to go through it right now.

Try to understand that for many trans women out there, being called a dude hurts, not just because of being called a dude but all the other shit on top of that that comes with being trans.

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