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Cake day: June 30th, 2023

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  • I think it’s reasonable for someone to get frustrated when someone has a disability, but only if that frustration doesn’t negatively affect one’s behavior. First and foremost, the disabled person deserves to be treated and respected as a person.

    When someone says TO SOMEONE ELSE they hate the fact that you can’t pay attention, maybe they’re only venting, or making a reasonable complaint. Are they still friendly on other occasions? Then your friendship is worth enough to them that they’re willing to tolerate the drawbacks. It may not seem like it at first, but that could be more of a compliment than anything. Actions really do speak louder than words.

    The “jump off a cliff” remark is concerning, though. That’s not an okay thing to say, or even think. I’d recommend avoiding that person - but who’s telling you this shit? Are they a reliable source? How trustworthy can they be if they’re spreading nasty gossip about things that were said to them in private? It’s possible that they’re lying, or exaggerating.

    Give people some slack, but not so much that you’re letting them treat you badly. Friendships are valuable. Don’t let the bad overshadow the good. Nobody, no matter how “perfect” they seem, has infinite patience. They also can’t possibly know what it’s like to be you.







  • This is one of those things that may be technically true if removed from its context, but doesn’t even occur to you unless you’re a heartless asshole. (Granted, we’re talking about lawyers here. Heartlessness is in the job description. But I digress…) In reality, I don’t think a lot of Palestinians are benefiting from having their land mercilessly bombed, their hospitals destroyed, and even their makeshift shelters targeted. Oh, and don’t forget the restrictions on aid and killing of doctors. Those things definitely outweigh any public health gains due to a reduction in obesity.






  • Theoretically, I’d say “sorta”.

    Practically, I’d say “no”.

    Capitalism can’t be “saved”, but it can be made less awful. Since capitalism is inherently amoral, “saving” it would mean MUCH more regulation. We’d have to force it into something marginally palatable, like ultraprocessed food. Then we’d need to keep a close eye on it, because companies/individuals will constantly be trying to manipulate the system. There isn’t the political will to do either of those things, though, and I don’t think there ever will be.

    I often wonder if capitalism is a phase, and if it will be abandoned eventually.