I appreciate you for those words brother. I hope you will overcome what you are facing and get peace

yeah i agree tbh the times when i got laid the most was when i was just not giving a f (but i did was in the best shape of my life tho…)

thank you i will think about it 🙏

im sorry to hear that brother. feels like we guys suffer in silence when it comes to mental health and dark phases of life. best of luck to you too. im sure we will both find peace soon 🙏

nice to hear your positive view:) i am so with you about clothing but in my case im short but not narrow so i cant just buy anything at all haha L to XL fit well on my shoulder but its like a dress for me and small fit well length wise but makes me look like a sausage and boy band member😂 i just always go to the tailor 😅 a lot of money:( sorry for my english 🙏

yeah i guess you are right. its just that i feel my height is not normal… like im not 5’5-5’7 which considered short,but normal. i feel like my height is extreme short and its like a legitimate reason for not wanting to date me and not because someone is shallow.

I have tbh guys. my ex which i was with for 3 years left me a year ago. and since then i dated with another girl for like 4 dates but i just couldnt see myself with anyone else but my ex and since then im depressed, because i cant imagine my self dating and building a life with anyone else and im very lonely and missing her even now. when im depressed a lot of the times i have the wrong habit to blame it all on my height. idk why. i hope it will pass. thank you all for all your help i didnt thought my post will get so much traffic.

I guess you are right. i guess im kind of depressed lately so i try to blame my height for it.

yeah i agree its still short but i feel like its normal short. you know?

I guess you are right. i have to be honest when im having sad times i think about it more often. i guess when im done with this time the need to do it will pass.

im agreeing with you in 95%. the 5%: I feel like my height is not in the range where im kinda short but its normal and if the woman rejecting me just on this she is shallow. 157cm is only like 7cm from being a legal dwarf… its not only short… its like… weird. i would have agree with you if i was like 165-170 and cry about it. but 157… its like shorter than most womens and not only short but extra short. im not self pity myself just to be clear im in a country where there is mandatory service in the military so rn im studying a fancy stem degree and regarding of taking care of my body im in the gym since 16yo (140kg bench and +70kgs weighted pullup 1rms thanks to my 164cm wingspan 🤣 ). but sometimes i feel i would do so much better if i would get like 10 more cm.

yeah i just feel like im not just short. 157cm is even shorter than most females. i guess im just in dark times in my life and when those time will pass the need to this will pass too.

you are right about that. im also thinking that if I will get this surgery and i will get some girl. when i go to sleep at night with her i will probably will think " hmmm, was she still dating me if i was 157 cm as before" and that will f with my head

probably a year and after it another year of walking funny. and to add that my squat will probably go down by a lot. which will suck. but still i feel like im not kind of short… im short short.

yeah you are right. but tbh sometime its also about being short in general. you know like every guy has is times when he feel less confident in life and in those times my height take over. i can even feel intimidated by taller guys standing near me. (and i do compensate with a lot of gym and im far stronger than the average guy but still. eye level is annoying sometime.) sorry about my english.

im so sorry to hear that. i didnt even knew its a possibility. i thought the worst thing that can happen (like pernament) is to walk funny and not squat as deep. sorry if my english is not good. not my first language.