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  • As an actor or the role?

    I recently watched some of a random episode on YouTube and it happened to be about how he and Samantha first met, literally the night before he was gonna marry someone else, and he throws it away because he’s infatuated with her after she barely speaks to him. Is this what passed for romance in the 60s? Fuck.



  • Okay so in our case it’s very California-specific. We managed to buy a house (hooray!) after the housing crash. Because of the way California handles property taxes, we will never move unless we decide to leave California for good. If we take a job that is not close to us, too bad, we’re factoring commute into the offer, because we can’t move. My husband seriously considered a job that would require either a 1.5 hour drive or train ride because the money was amazing but ended up taking a much lower-paying WFH job, and the commute was a huge factor.


  • Sometimes feeling like shit is insidious. It sneaks up on you and you may not even realize it, until you do something actually good for yourself (like getting a couple nights in a row of good rest, or committing to making healthy meals for a week or whatever) and then you realize how shitty you were feeling before. But it’s so easy to slip back into feeling shitty with bad habits! I say this from lots of experience…


  • I was a big fan growing up. Really liked Achtung Baby and of course Joshua Tree is a great album. I even liked Zooropa and Pop. Went to see them live in the 2000s but by then the shine was wearing off; I was getting older and being a fan of things wasn’t as important to my identity anymore. But I was curious recently, so I looked up when their partnership with Apple started… Yeah, it was exactly the time I stopped liking them as much. It was both validating and depressing to make that connection. I’d always nodded along when people talked about bands selling out, but U2 was my band and they weren’t supposed to do that! Now I feel like they’re the poster child of selling out.




  • proudblond@lemmy.worldtoComic Strips@lemmy.worldRead More
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    17 days ago

    I don’t love audiobooks but last year I made the switch from podcasts to audiobooks and I haven’t looked back. Podcasts are fine but I get my news online and too much of it anyway, and I wanted to prioritize reading instead. I also always make sure to have an ebook loaded on my phone, and I find myself reaching for it when I run out of Lemmy, or if I’m waiting at a doctor’s office or in line somewhere. It’s really nice to have an alternative to the internet. Highly recommended!

    Btw I use Libby and Bookwyrm to track so it’s all 100% free. I purchase physical copies of the ones I really like.







  • proudblond@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldMixtapes 2.0
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    20 days ago

    Not at all. One of my kids only likes to watch the same thing over and over and over. I think it must be comforting in the same way that we like to listen to the same music over and over; we recognize what comes next and there is a comfort in having that power.




  • Reading “The Will of the Many.” I see why people like it. I’m a little less than thrilled with the YA academy setting but the rest is pretty good.

    Listening to “Gideon the Ninth.” I understand this one’s popularity less, but it’s okay enough to try and finish it to see if there’s something I’m missing. The narrator is great but there’s something about the writing style that leaves me feeling disconnected.

    Also I didn’t realize that “The Will of the Many” was YA or close enough to it. I really should not try and consume two YA novels at the same time, as I’m not really all that fond of them typically.