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Cake day: November 5th, 2024

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  • Look into “recreational programming.” Make shit for the joy of making shit. Creation in it of itself is something to be sought after imho. Did’t finish that website? Who cares?! Don’t have any useful ideas? Make something useless!! Don’t worry about “users” or making the next big thing in tech. If you’re having fun click-clacking on your keyboard and solving problems, that’s all that matters

    So to answer your question, I’ve dabbled in a little bit of everything: web, db, graphics, interpreters, osdev, the works. The very few projects I’ve ever “finished,” however, are my lower-level ones; I just love getting right up close to the metal. Find a niche that interests you, start a million projects in it, and be proud of the one you finish years after you probably should’ve

    Right now, I’m working on a custom programming language/game engine built with Vulkan and LLVM. It’s got first-class support for a bunch of cool game and graphics stuff, and I’m super passionate about it right now. I’ll probably lose steam and only come back to it months after, but I don’t mind

    Edit: Also, don’t be afraid to use libraries to focus on what you want to focus on. I used to have an obsession with writing absolutely everything myself from the ground up, but I’ve since come to the realization that other people are MUCH smarter and more talented than I am, and I should trust them to write software for me. A great example of this is LLVM and my graphics language — depending on someone else to do the super complex compiler design lets me focus on what I wanna make: a language front-end and graphics library. It’s important to limit your scope to only what you care about



















  • Ah, I should’ve clarified:

    We’re both aware of the issues we’ve been having and both agree that closing the distance could very well fix them. So, we said we could marry only legally (as in go to a courthouse and do it that way) purely as a measure to do so while I serve. If we find out everything’s fine in that time, we can have an actual ceremony with family and vows and all that good stuff. If not, we get it annulled like it never happened


  • (Great writing for a rant that you didn’t proof-read. I especially like the LaTeX-like emdashes.)

    Thanks, lol. I use them a lot

    But if you decide she’s The One for you and she feels the same about you, then stay the course and maybe attempt to make your relationship more permanent (marriage) which might solve some of the problems (or make them worse if you’re not both committed to it)

    I was thinking I would tough it out until we see one another in July — that’s just two and a half months away from now. If we still hit it off together in person after so long apart, I might stay, but if it’s awkward and/or we’re still having problems, I might leave. I just need to remain disciplined and moral with my friends — especially the one I know is interested in me — until then.

    Edit: We’ve talked about getting married for the sole purpose of being able to live together while I serve. In my mind, if that doesn’t work out, a divorce isn’t the worst thing in the world, especially since we obviously won’t have kids or joint ownership of any assets.